Friday, March 20, 2009

You've got a Friend....


This morning I want to begin with a little something about Friendship.

Madelyn is the most caring, thoughtful kind of friend a person could have and I have to say that her friends are a reflection of that. Each of you have reached out to Maddy in your own way and we all have developed a kind of bond that is so very special because Madelyn is the thread that weaves through our lives at this moment.

Whether you work with Bob, Kara cuts your hair, you used to go to college Bob, you teach Madeyln in math, you have heard about Maddy through a friend....however you have connected with us, we thank you. WE thank YOU. You who have baked us cookies. YOU who have told us you are praying for Maddy. YOU who have written. YOU who have made us a home cooked meal. YOU who have told us that you are here for us. YOU who have offered to tutor Maddy. YOU who have worked extra hard to keep Madelyn alive. YOU who have donated your time. YOU who have shared your love with us and Madelyn. This my friend, is the very definition of friendship and we are grateful for you.

Madelyn turned a corner yesterday and I am happy to share with you that she was able to communicate with her Mom through head nods. She is so very weak and is still on the ventilator and on the "Milk of Amnesia" medicine, but she is bright! That girl of ours is smart as a tack! She understands that all of her doctors, nurses, respiratory therapist, physical therapists, and her parents are all there to help her and she is not afraid. The fact that she is not afraid is so Madelyn. She is so strong and at times a little more fearless than her Mom would like, but I believe that this is going to help her so much as she continues to fight to be well.

Her numbers did drop, which is not good and her blood pressure was more elevated than it should be. Overall, her condition is still about the same. She is still on the ventilator, which is keeping her lungs filled with good oxygen for healing and also to make sure they don't collapse. Her body is so very weak and she will need much physical therapy throughout the coming months. Although she is able to move her head and shoulders very slightly, she doesn't have enough strength to move her fingers. The doctors are determining this morning if they will increase her paralytic medication to allow more sleep and hopefully keep her blood pressure down.

** As of 1:20 today, the doctors have determined that Madelyn has a new strain of pneumonia that she has developed, in addition to the new influenza virus. We encourage all people with any kind of illness, cough, cold, sore throat do not visit the family at the hospital. Thank you for understanding. We need her to get well and it's harder for her to do this when she develops new illnesses while in the hospital. Madelyn's immune system is completely maxed-out and cannot fight off thing she normally would be able to. We need to take every precaution possible. Thank you.

Sacred Hearter's, no real new numbers to report to you today. We are so happy that she is still fighting and we thank you for keeping her alive!

As you start your day today, please keep Madelyn in your thoughts and prayers. She still have a very long road ahead of her. Slow and steady Mad. Slow and Steady is winning the race and we are all cheering you on. You can do it!

Thank you hardly feels like enough. We feel so very fortunate to have all of you as our Friends.
May all of the good you have shared with us return to you in your time of need.

14 comments:

  1. Hello Maddy! I am here to check up on you this morning like every morning and several times a day. We are all cheering you on and praying for you. Not a moment goes by that I am not thinking of you and praying for you and your family. You are doing a good job at fighting off this bug, keep it up. I will be checking in later to see how things are going, you have a great family and would like to say thanks for this great blog and all the updates. xoxoxoxo
    Love & Prayers,
    Carrie - Bob - Bryce & Hunter

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  2. maddy i miss you so much!I cant what to see you.Yoy are in my prayers all the time. I can't balieve you were comnuteing with your mom by noding your head WOW! i cant what to see you again i love you
    love whitney

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  3. Dearest Maddy,

    Grampa & I went home for three days. When we arrived this morning, I saw your eyes flicker open. Daddy asked if you wanted me to hold your hand, you shook your head yes!! My heart soared. I will never forget the wonderful, wonderful feeling you gave me. We love you Maddy with all our heart.

    Grampa & Gramma J.

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  4. Dear Maddy,Kara,Bob and Mallory,
    We are thinking about you everyday!! Maddy, you sleep well and fight hard! Everything will be ok!! Kara and Bob, if you need anything, I'll help out in any way possible!!
    Love, Lynette, Mike, Matthew and Allison Butterfield

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  5. Bob and I just want to thank everyone here at Sacred Heart for all of your help through this tough time. We appreciate all of you so much. All of your PTO, food, and $$ donations are so incredibly helpful and thoughtful. I don't know how we can ever repay you for all of your thoughtful deeds. Keep sending Maddy positive thoughts and prayers. Thank you just doesn't cut it. But, I will say it anyway...THANK YOU ALL AO MUCH! Kara, Bob, Madelyn, Mallory

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  6. Ijust wanted to say thank you to all of our wonderful friends for all of your help. We appreciate all of you taking such good care of us. We love the fact that everyone is feeding us and asking to help out with Mal. I have always known that we have good friends, but never imagined anyone helping us out this much. Your kindness means so much to all of us. THank you, thank you , and thank you some more. Please keep sending Madelyn positive thoughts and prayers. She knows you are all praying for her. THank you. Lots of love, Kara, Bob, Mad, and Mal

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  7. Kara, I just found out about Madelyn and want you to know that she is in my thoughts and prayers. You have such a strong little girl, she's obviously a fighter!!Take care.
    Love, Karla Staggs McCoy

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  8. Maddy I miss your smile at school. I hope you feel better. I love you a lot. Maddy I know you can make it. FIGHT,MADDY,FIGHT! I want to see that cute smile again.Your in my prayers.
    Taylor

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  9. Maddy I am so happy because you saw me.
    I was so excited because I have not seen you for about 11 days and you have not seen me.
    GET WELL SOON MADDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    LOVE,
    MEOWMEOW

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  10. Maddy, Jesus loves you this I know, for the Bible tells me so. Little ones to him belong, they are weak but He is strong!

    We praise you Lord for you are our strength. We thank you Lord for your many blessings. Hear the tears and saddened hearts of those who love and care for Maddy and bring comfort to them. Let the strength of Your healing hand touch Maddy and her loved ones and as Our Great Physician guide and direct the medical staff in caring for Maddy. Restore her to good health and ease the worries of those who are suffering for Maddy's sake. This we ask in the precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen and Amen!

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  11. Bob, Kara, Maddy, and Mallory,

    All of you are so special to us. We could not ask for better friends. We continue praying for all of you.

    Sharla, you are doing such a fantastic job with this site. Thank you so much. We hope to see you and Shane again soon.

    Continue fighting, Maddy! We are proud of you and the progress you are making this week.

    Love,
    Ed and Judy

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  12. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:30-31

    Maddy, I pray you will soon run and not grow weary!

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  13. Maddy I know you can do it! and i cant what to see! i am praying for you alot. i miss you sooo much.You are one of my b.f.f 4 ever the class misses you and i miss you we can not what to see you soon

    love whitney

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  14. hey maddy how ya doing?
    get well soon.
    elizabeth

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